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:: Love Chronicle ::
October 4, 2005

♥ Ang Buhay Single ♥
posted lovechronicle at 07:58 PM in ♥ story telling ♥

Ang Buhay Single
by McG

Bakit ba tuwing may "get2geder" ang mga tao, mapa-family reunion man or simpleng barkada gimik, ang unang tanong sayo ay "May boyfriend ka ba?" at bago ka pa maka-sagot ay maririnig mo naman ang "Bakett walaaaaaa??!"

Hayyy, kelangan ba talagang may bitbit kang boylet sa mga occasions na ito? Pano kung wala talaga? Alanganamang maki-usap pa ako sa mga "close" guy friends ko para mag-panggap na "kami"?! Di naman ata tama yun, dee-bah?

How I wish na sana mas maintindihan ng mga tao na sa mga panahon ngayon ay "accepted" na sa society na MEDYO made-delay ang pag-iisang dibdib ng mga kababaihan.. especially girls like me who want to get into so many things all at the same time.

I also wish that people would understand that OKAY LANG AKO and the rest of THE SAMAHANG MALAMIG ANG PASKO... Valentines day.. Birthday..etc. I mean, we do get lonely once in a while.. naiingit din dun sa may mga LOVELIFE... paminsan-minsan? kung minsan naman ay nagmumuni sa mga past kilig moments? but these lonely moments do not and will not make our "world" stop...

Isipin nyo nalang, na kung wala kaming mga single friends nyo, eh di wala kayong paghihingaan ng sama ng loob tuwing nag-aaway kayo ng boylet or girlet nyo? wala rin kayong "instant date" kung sakaling nangailangan kayo?... wala rin kayong mahihila sa mall para maghanap ng magandang regalo for your better-half pag xmas... o kaya pag bday nya? at ang pinaka-mahalaga sa lahat, wala kayong KAKAMPI if things between you and your labidabs don't work out.

Marami naman sa aming mga singles ay nakaranas na rin na "ma-in-love".. yun nga lang, obvious ba?????????? it all didn't work out!

Pero di naman kami "bitter" o galit sa mundo? and totoo nga nyan eh mas lumalalim ang kahulugan ng "love" para sa min. When you're all by yourself, there's more time to reflect and think what you really want it life. Mas naiisip mo kung ano ba talaga

ang makakapagbigay ng tunay na ligaya sayo... at mas naiisip mo kung pano matutupad ang lahat ng mga pangarap mo. And while reflecting, we also get to imagine that we will, one day.... end up with someone who will share those dreams with us.

Di naman sa nang-iinggit ako pero masaya rin ang buhay naming mga single... Biruin mo we can go out with anybody, anytime..that is. We can get into all kinds of things.. like go to the gym regularly.. or get into all kinds of sports... or any "Self-enhancement" programs, etc... Mejo tipid din ang buhay single kasi la naman kaming po-problemahin tuwing Valentines day or Christmas? o diba ang saya?

Sa palagay ko naman ay lahat tayo ay may karapatang sumaya ke single man o attached ka. I guess may kanya-kanya lang tayong panahong lumigaya at Diyos lamang ang makapagsasabi... kung kelan nga dadating ang oras na yon.

So, para sa mga kasalukuyang "ATTACHED", I wish you all the luck and happiness. Should there be any problems, don't forget that your SINGLE friends are always here for you!!!!!

Sa mga "bagong SINGLES" naman, wag nang magmukmok! Enjoy life.... enjoy the single life!!! There are a lot of things that you will still discover. At tandaan mo, DI KA NAG-IISA!!!

madami-dami tayo..hehehehe

At dun naman sa kapwa kong mga SINGLES? I hope that we are one in believing that we long for someone NOT BECAUSE WE WANT TO BE HAPPY but we long for someone because we want to share our happiness with that special person for the rest of our lives....


 


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jacob (guest)

Comment posted on January 17th, 2009 at 12:36 PM
gRHAicyY

daisy (guest)

Comment posted on September 27th, 2007 at 12:56 AM
naks ... im so happy to read dis...
meron plng like us... d nmn ibig sbhin ng Single ur not happy to ur life...
d nyo ba alam na busy c God sa pag gawa ng Best LoveStory for Us...hehehhe

dolftweet (guest)

Comment posted on November 29th, 2006 at 11:29 PM
yeah!!!ang galing mo namn!!!d sa pgyayabng pro yan din ung mga bgay bgay n gusto kong sbihin o iexpress pro tumtahimik nlng po me kz akla ko ala n nmn sguro me pkialam pa sa mga bgy bgy n, to pro un nkakatuwa n meron p rin p nga pla mga people n katulad ko!!!he!he! ang galing tlga!!!!wu!!!!yeah!!!!he!he! totoo nga lhta ung mga nsabi mo !!!!he!he!

nash (guest)

Comment posted on October 29th, 2006 at 03:50 PM
People always said na..na satin(mga single)na maramie tayong advantage..coz we have the opportunity to choose ..kung sino gusto natin makasama..!! pero lagi ko sabi pano ko pipili if I know hu I want..and kaya ako single because I cant forget that person..and ofcorze..di ko na kayang magmahal ng iba..!! and I can say that..it sucks..to be single..not because..ur not inlove ..but bcoz of pressure..!!! grabe ang mga pipol sa earth no!! alam na ngang wala..tanong pa ng tanong...they think na desperado ka na kahit ok lang naman..Im really gald at nabasa ko 2!!! kahit papano..my nanakaintindie papala ng salitang single..you roockzzz!!!!

Leya (guest)

Comment posted on October 18th, 2005 at 11:54 AM
yea mas maganda siguro maging singles kesa attach ka with someone. pero once na maramdaman mo na yng LOVE tapos minahal ka den. para tong DRUGS nakakaadik! hahanap hanapin mo. :) mas happy na nasheshare mo yung love mo with someone. and napapakita mo to. masasabing TAO ka kc nagmahal ka. harhar ü tao ka ba?
Comment posted on October 18th, 2005 at 02:12 PM
tao ako..

may mahal at may nagmamahal saken!!! ü

:)